The start of school is often exciting and challenging academically, yet for young teens and high schoolers, a new school year may also provide some “tests” outside of the classroom.

“Even when trying to do their best academically and socially, it can be hard for teenagers to resist peer pressure,” says Shelly Mowrey, Fountain Hills Coalition director.

“With the pressures of wanting to fit in, many seek approval of their peers and begin experimenting with drugs and alcohol.”

Mowrey said the coalition exists to help parents and their families.

Here are some steps offered by the coalition that parents can take to work with their teen on how to handle peer pressure as the young school year continues:

In the know

Talk with your middle school and high school student. Teenagers often get into trouble when they act without thinking. Talking about peer pressure can help prepare for a difficult moment with friends.

Helping to avoid peer pressure isn’t just about making sure they know the risks involved – it’s about the parent being “in the know” as well. One way to stay in the know is to sign up for the coalition’s Safe Homes Network.

The network is a group of concerned parents and citizens who have taken a pledge not to allow underage drinking or illegal drug use in their homes.

The Safe Homes Network is a proactive step to protect children from the harmful, often deadly, consequences of alcohol and illegal drug use.

“Being a part of the Safe Homes Network gives you peace of mind,” says Maria Perreault, Fountain Hills mom and coalition program manager.

“When your child goes to a friend’s home you’re not familiar with, in just seconds you can check the Safe Homes Network to see if the child’s family are members and know your child is safe.”

The coalition plans to have a presence at sporting events throughout the school year, once again offering a series of cash drawings.

Those who are members of SHN or sign up to become members receive an extra chance to be a lucky cash winner.

Risky situations

A high school student should feel comfortable saying “no.” But for some teens, saying “no” to their friends and to a “best” friend may be difficult, Mowry said. Talk to your son or daughter about different ways of responding to peer pressure.

Also, encourage walking away from unhealthy friendships built on peer pressure. Develop a rescue plan with your child. Make sure to emphasize that you are available to pick them up or help them if they are ever put in a risky situation and will always prioritize safety over punishment.

Another tool that’s available to Fountain Hills parents is the coalition’s Early Action Kits.

The Early Action Kit is a home drug-testing kit. It offers youths an immediate out if they are asked if they want to use drugs or alcohol. The child can simply say, “No I can’t smoke that, my parents have a drug test at home.”

Positive parenting

Parents should help teens cope with peer pressure by encouraging positive relationships and becoming involved and supportive in his or her interests.

When a teen feels confident, he or she is less likely to give in to pressure. Participation in after-school clubs and sports will help students avoid potential scenarios and form relationships with peers who share these positive interests.

The Maricopa County Sheriff’s Office offers activities throughout the year with its Middle School Madness events.

“Remember what it is like being a teen?” Mowrey said.

“With a new school year here, teens will desire to be socially accepted when with new people or in new situations.

“Ensure a safe and healthy year by being an accountable parent and teaching the strategies needed to cope with peer pressure as the new school year begins.

“Remember we’re here for you. Go to FHCoalition.org and we will provide tools for you at every step of the way.

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